Real Stories - July 2005

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For me in bed there are some real gains. He is a more accomplished lover because he concentrates entirely on me. I have had some stunning orgasms高潮 — the sexual climax as he works his magic. I simply have to lie back and relax and enjoy myself. If I ask for anything ‘special’ he willingly provides. I had never gotten into oral sex before but he has developed an amazing tongue – just thinking about it gets my juices going.

Another great advantage is I am in control. Before he wanted sex most of the time (he is a man!) and would tend to take it however I felt. Don’t get me wrong, I loved him then as I do now, and was happy for his pleasure but there were many times when I would rather have not. Now there is no argument. He may try to pleasure me, but it is now so much easier to say no.

Like everything there can be downsides. I do love to be penetrated and sometimes have to resist my own urges and not unlock him. But I will do should I so wish. I have many toys which help and his strap-on穿戴式假阳具 — a toy penis worn in a harness really does the business! When I think back to before, I realize that a high proportion of our sex was non-penetrative anyway. Maybe I am trying to justify it to myself but the benefits far out weigh any loss in this matter.

Another benefit from restricting him is his reaction when I do release him! Sometimes I tell him that he will be unlocked for say just 3 days, and does he go for it! Boy. it’s like it’s the last time in his life! I have never enjoyed his pleasure as much.