Real Stories - October 2005

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To be very clear about this, Fifi is happy with 'her' lifestyle and does not want to change at all. As for myself, I love being the Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner. I have a full sex life (with Fifi's knowledge and approval), and some of my friends are aware of my lifestyle and are even jealous.

Although we lead very different and sometimes separate lives, we are both happy and still love each other. I only wish that we had talked openly years earlier.

Elise’s Response:

Janice, I often hear similar stories of how some variation of the FemDom女性支配 — female domination lifestyle saved a marriage. You two were headed toward divorce had you not been willing to be totally open and honest with each other about your needs and desires. Fifi is now able to live a lifestyle that he desired and longed for, probably for all of his adult life. The feminization has allowed the two of you to bond a new and unique level. The two of you were not compatible within the confines of a vanilla普通性爱 — sex without kink marriage but through the power of FemDom女性支配 — female domination, a new intimacy and a new relationship has been formed. Now you are still a vital part of each other’s lives. The alternative was permanent separation and divorce.

Thank you for sharing this with me and I do wish you both continued growth and happiness. Take care.

From William G: