Real Stories - October 2005

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We traveled too far too fast, I fear, and are backsliding to our old selves. She rejected the idea of regular discipline though we did have a number of sessions. Some of these were quite intense and it was apparent she had some element of punishment in mind. She used a strap-on穿戴式假阳具 — a toy penis worn in a harness to penetrate me three times. This seems to be the point where we went too fast. Now she is rejecting all of it. Her dominance is waning after it was in full bloom.

I have asked her what we need to do to get back on track. I need discipline and the strap-on穿戴式假阳具 — a toy penis worn in a harness takes me to a quiet place where she is clear and very special to me. Her inner beauty radiates when she is demanding of me. Serving her wipes away the ravages of time. She does not understand this.

We have agreed to counseling with a sex therapist with expertise in female domination to help us understand what to do. I know my wife has the ability and the desire. She is awesome.

Elise’s Response:

I think it is great that the two of you have agreed to counseling. Getting a fresh opinion from someone who is viewing your relationship from the outside is a good idea when there is an impasse.

My advice to you is that you give your wife the room to grow. I know that you have tasted the wonderful fruits this lifestyle has to offer and you no doubt hunger for more. But you need to make that sacrifice by preferring your wife. View it as in exercise in submission as you place her needs ahead of your own needs.