Real Stories - October 2005

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So it gets down to your attitude and your perception. You need to see yourself as her slave奴隶 — a person kept in total obedience in order to get to that place in your submission where her dominance is exciting and fulfilling to you. That is who you are. So by all means, see yourself as her slave奴隶 — a person kept in total obedience, for that is what you are. You are her slave奴隶 — a person kept in total obedience. But you are also her husband so when she needs a husband, you need to be that for her. By doing so, you will be serving her, thus you will still be her slave奴隶 — a person kept in total obedience.

I think you will find that if you will balance the husband/slave奴隶 — a person kept in total obedience roles, you will discover that your wife will not be as conflicted. It is obvious that she loves to control you and she loves to dominate you but she doesn’t want to lose her husband, as that meets a need within her. So it comes down to the both of you striking that proper balance.