Real Stories - December 2005

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My husband is a very private man and he has never enjoyed participating in public play parties. I don’t frequent as many fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing or FemDom女性支配 — female domination events that I did in the 80’s and 90’s, but even back in those days I would take other submissive顺从 — willing to obey men with me more often than my husband because he had difficulty being at ease with his submission in front of strangers. And even to this day when we do get together with others in the lifestyle, he has to really know the people in order to be comfortable. I, on the other hand, have always loved expressing my dominance in front of others. That is just the difference in our natures and personalities.

Some people can really get into the flow of the energy and the chemistry and having others watching adds to the excitement. Whereas others are inhibited if others are watching or participating, and that breaks the chemistry and the energy. It sounds likes your wife has done a great job in getting you to overcome some of your inhibitions. Whether you are totally at ease or not is not as important as the fact that you are willing to endure it for your wife. Speaking from experience, I always loved it when my husband endured something he found to be unpleasant in order to obey me. That speaks volumes about a man’s willingness to surrender his will over to the woman’s will.