Real Stories - December 2005

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In short, there is a real problem with communication. If we were a Femdom女性支配 — female domination married couple, communication would be much more open. But in our present relationship I am simply Her slave奴隶 — a person kept in total obedience, and any attempt to express my wishes is considered "topping from the bottom". If You have any suggestions that may help, I'd love to tap into Your wisdom.

Elise’s Response:

Jack, I think you answered your own question. The Pro Dom/slave奴隶 — a person kept in total obedience relationship will never be the same as the Dominant wife/submissive顺从 — willing to obey husband relationship. That is not to say that you cannot have a fulfilling and exciting relationship with your Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner. It sounds like you do, but you must realize the limitations.

It is Ok to love her and to have deep feelings for her but do not deceive yourself into believing that she is going to view you as more than her slave奴隶 — a person kept in total obedience. I am sure she has feelings for you as well and that she cares for you, but they are not romantic feelings. She is not looking for a partner, she wants you to be her totally devoted servant. She has told you what is required of you and you have agreed to it.