Real Stories - December 2005

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I would say that you would have come into a FemDom女性支配 — female domination marriage eventually. That night when you slapped him for his rude behavior is what launched you into this lifestyle but had that not happened, eventually some other event would have. You are a dominant woman and it was only a matter of time when you would have taken the reigns of your marriage. Seeing that you were only married for a few months when this event occurred, I think it is reasonable to assume that you were looking for a chance to take charge. Maybe you didn’t consciously make that decision but subconsciously you wanted to take charge and it didn’t take much for you to assume the dominant role.

Best wishes to you as you continue to explore this lifestyle and its many benefits. I only would caution you to always communicate with your husband to make sure he is also getting his needs met within your marriage. Sometimes the wife is so consumed with her new power that she assumes that no matter what she does, her submissive顺从 — willing to obey husband is also enjoying these new power dynamics. You don’t need his permission but in order to have a long-term fulfilling marriage, you do need to make sure that your husband’s needs are also being met. Take care.

From Jim C.