The Psychoanalysis of the submissive顺从 — willing to obey male - procedure of the month: June 2005

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This procedure is going to be a little more on the softer and intimate side. I think the woman is really going to enjoy this one. A D/s relationship is about far more than strict discipline and domination. It is about romance and love. Discipline and domination without romance and love is ineffective. There is a goal to all of the whippings, verbal humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose, and torture. These are not a means without an end.

Therefore, this week I thought that we would take a break from some of the harder stuff, and focus on the softer side of D/s.

Each exercise builds upon the previous and it points to the next. In the future we are going to be going deeper and deeper with more intense scenes and exercises.

At this point, you should have your submissive顺从 — willing to obey male's ego and pride pretty well under your control. Now it's time to start to do some rebuilding of his psyche into a softer personality. One that is of more use to women.

Exercise I.

You are going to inform your submissive顺从 — willing to obey about what you expect from him for the evening. Tell him the night before or the morning of the night that you select to play.

I would suggest that you dress a little sexy as you inform him of your desire of a romantic night from him. It doesn't have to be anything too involved, but dress a little sexy as this will help put him into the right frame of mind.