The Psychoanalysis of the submissive顺从 — willing to obey male - procedure of the month: December 2005

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This is a major step in a D&S relationship. While the contract may not be legally binding, it is binding as far as the two of you are concerned. There is actually a legal advantage to having such a signed contract. If God forbid your relationship were to ever hit bad times and one of you left the other, the signed contract could come in handy to protect you. This is especially true should cuckolding ever become a part of your marriage. If a husband would ever accuse his wife of infidelity, she could use the signed contract as proof that it was a mutual lifestyle and was an agreed upon activity. The same goes if God forbid a husband had a heart attack or stroke during an intense scene or discipline session. There have been a few cases in the US where a D&S partner was accused of abuse and in one case, even murder. A signed contract shows that D&S play was a part of a loving and caring relationship and a normal part of a couple's sexuality.

More importantly than the potential legal benefit, a signed contract like this really brings home what a Female Domination/male submission marriage is all about. It really lays out the roles and the expectations within such a marriage. The terms and conditions of this contract should be taken serious.