Q&A Forum - April 2010 (The best of Elise)

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I agree with you totally when it comes to opportunities missed by submissive顺从 — willing to obey men. While many women are still not open at this time to “kinky” sexual activities in the bedroom, lots of these same women are very open to the concept of a female-led relationship where the woman makes the decisions. Women are growing accustomed to being in charge at the workplace and in other social circles, and they like being in charge so more and more women are looking for a man who will submit to them.

I think the reason a lot of men miss these opportunities are because their focus is in the wrong place. They are looking for a woman who will don leather and wield a whip right off the bat, instead of seeking a woman who may be open to the concept of loving female authority. The D&S can always come later once the woman and the man get to know each other and explore each other’s sexual natures within the confines of a relationship built on trust. The dominant woman will usually be open to some forms of FemDom女性支配 — female domination in the bedroom if the man submits to her in the other areas of the relationship. Inhibitions must be overcome and it takes trust and openness.