Q&A Forum - April 2013

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Q. As I read through your website and books, I notice that the D&S activities that couples participate in seem to get more intense with each passing year. What worked last year is getting boring this year. You stress over and over again that serving your woman is the core of the FemDom女性支配 — female domination lifestyle, and it is the place to start. Why does this lifestyle seem to progress is such a perverted way? Why is the man not content with just serving his woman? I know in my own life I’m getting bored with just servitude and find my mind drifting to the D&S fantasies. Just servitude doesn’t seem to be giving me the fulfillment that you claim other submissive顺从 — willing to obey men are experiencing.

Is the FemDom女性支配 — female domination lifestyle really like an addictive drug that you need to increase the dose every year by getting more perverted in your D&S activities?

A. What exactly are you referring to when you say “perverted D&S activities?” And why are they perverted? If two people embrace a mutually fulfilling lifestyle and if two people embrace a consensual sexuality within a loving relationship, it is not perverted. It may be “unique” or it may be “wild” or it may be “trend-setting” or it may even be what certain elements in society would call “kinky” but that does not mean it is “perverted”.