Q&A Forum - April 2013

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I cannot dismiss your premise because some couples do progress along this path. As a woman grows in power and as the male surrenders more areas of his life over to the woman, it is only natural that they will desire to experience new things and they will want to explore new levels. As trust is built and as intimacy grows, that opens the door to new possibilities. However, it is a mistake to assume that a certain path will be followed because every couple is different. There are couples who might think that a golden shower黄金浴 — peeing on a partner is the wildest thing they can imagine and once they experiment with that they may think they have just expanded their boundaries beyond anything they ever dared imagined. Yet, another couple might think of a golden shower黄金浴 — peeing on a partner as mild and no big deal, thus the experience would not have the same effect or equate to the same level of a power exchange.

To some couples, a spanking is advanced play. To others, cuckolding is the ultimate. The activities are not what is important but what is important is the mental power exchange. The man who surrenders himself over to the woman is the man who will experience submissive顺从 — willing to obey fulfillment. To some men, being a domestic servant is the ultimate because they have submitted their hearts to serving the female. No D&S sexual activity could match the intensity of doing chores or running errands or administering a massage按摩 — rubbing the body to ease it because submission is a condition of the heart.