Q&A Forum - April 2015

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Your response to Brian's situation I found very enlightening, and as a man who's experienced almost an identical path as his, although I wish them both the best, I suspect what he might find at the end of his journey with his wife will be unfulfilling for him. You had mentioned win/win in the relationship, and I wonder if Brian will find the validation from his wife that he's looking for, as a hardwired submissive顺从 — willing to obey man. Of course if his wife is pampered and her needs are being met, she'll be ultimately very happy with him, but selling a vanilla普通性爱 — sex without kink partner only the benefits of Femdom女性支配 — female domination without the two way connection to go with it, at least in my experience, will result in an unfulfilling one sided relationship. I'm sure Brian will feed off of his wife's happiness like every good submissive顺从 — willing to obey man should, however I'm willing to bet that since D/s is wired into his sexual orientation, Brian will feel incomplete by this one sided play. Seeking validation for a job well done is integral in this (me) submissive顺从 — willing to obey man's happiness and perhaps in Brian’s as well. I don't think it makes us any less genuine for having this need.