Q&A Forum - April 2016 (best of Elise)

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Pain is the body’s way of telling the mind that something is wrong and it is usually at that point that the mind will snap out of the spiritual realm of thought and focus on the problem, i.e. the pain, thus the power of the session is broken. In order for the mental and the physical to achieve that balance where the experience is fulfilling and powerful, the session must find that threshold and stay at that threshold without going too far beyond that threshold. For most men, mild to moderate discomfort or pain will take them to that threshold where the mental and the physical can enter into that balance where the mental triggers are stimulated from the physical sensations. To go beyond the threshold will take the focus off the mental triggers and instead focus on the discomfort, which will make it a negative experience instead of a positive experience. Therefore, most men who say they want “extreme” pain are speaking from their fantasies and not from reality. So always keep that in mind. It is Ok to talk about “extreme sessions” as the words of the discussion will stimulate those triggers, for words are mental stimulus and will communicate from your mind to his mind. But once you step over from the mental to the physical, you are limited by the body’s limitations.