Q&A Forum - April 2016 (best of Elise)

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Wives have been referred to as “new mothers” long before anyone ever coined the phrase “female domination”. I would venture to guess that ever since there has been the institution of marriage, wives have been compared to mothers, both in a positive sense and in a derogatory sense, such as male peers teasing a husband that he is “hen-pecked” and has lost his freedom to his “new mother”.

This comparison is only natural because both a mother and a wife display the maternal instincts of the female nature. But never forget that in most cases, a woman is a wife (or significant other to a man) before she ever becomes a mother to a child. The matriarchal rule of a woman begins with the marriage (and often during the courtship) long before children come into the picture. It doesn’t take a woman long before she begins to exert her authority and influence over a man. She will change his dress, point out his many flaws and try to train him to become what she expects in a man. I am talking about so-called vanilla普通性爱 — sex without kink relationships here, not just FemDom女性支配 — female domination, but rather most female/male relationships.