Q&A Forum - August 2008 (Best of Elise)

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My wife has a major concern, however, that I do not have a good answer for. She & I both love the fact that I do most of the household chores now. I love the power she has over me and that she can make me do anything she wants whenever she wants. I also receive enjoyment knowing she is relaxing, doing homework (full-time student), or watching TV while her 'man servant' does all the chores around the house. She feels guilty at times making me do all of these things while she does 'nothing' (her words). Partly because she feels 'sorry' for me, i.e. that I'm too tired that night, but mostly because she doesn't want our children (boys) seeing their mom do 'nothing' around the house. How can I help her get over this guilt-trip she feels about my subservient status and our boys?

A. First, I think it is wonderful that the female domination lifestyle has brought so much joy and happiness into your lives. That is what it is all about.