Q&A Forum - August 2008 (Best of Elise)

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When doing research for my book "The FemDom女性支配 — female domination Experience" I interviewed couples that are members of FemDom女性支配 — female domination groups where cuckolding occurs outside the home. One such group has set up a social where married women can meet their lovers and engage in sexual relations in the home of the couple that hosts these socials. It only happens once or twice a month, in private, in secret, and only the wives, the husbands and the lovers know about it. They protect their kids and their family life by keeping the cuckolding lifestyle separate from their day to day life.

Nevertheless, these kinds of groups are rare. In your situation, you have to be mindful of the lover. Can you trust him not to tell others? What if your relationship with him ends badly? Would he try to ruin your reputation? Those are the types of questions you need to ask yourself. And of course the biggest question is “how will my husband react once the fantasy becomes a reality?” The well-being of your family must always be the deciding factor.