Q&A Forum - August 2017 (The best of Elise)

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So continue to obey her and always be eager to serve her with a servant’s heart. But never forget that part of being a submissive顺从 — willing to obey is to abide by the wishes of your Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner, even when you don’t see eye to eye on her decisions. Again, all you can do is offer but then you must abide by her decision. Take care.

Q. Elise, is the form of control through psychoanalysis that you advocate a form of brainwashing? [The basic technique - alternating love and withdrawal - is popular with religious cults]. The husband may be consenting but is it informed consent or informed choice? Does the end justify the means? Does all this square with the ethics of the Psychology profession?

A. Brainwashing? Hardly! It’s more along the lines of validating what someone already knows when they become honest with their thoughts, emotions and innermost being. “The Psychoanalysis of the submissive顺从 — willing to obey male” is an exercise that is designed to encourage an open and honest discussion between a man who harbors desires for female domination and a woman who cares for and loves that man but is only beginning to come into an understanding of the mutual benefits of the female domination lifestyle. It is an exercise designed to overcome barriers imposed by societal traditions and expectations.