Q&A Forum - August/September 2019 (Best of Elise)

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So my advice to you is to change your attitude about serving your wife. You need to view her as being worthy of your obedience and if she never agrees to engage in humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose play with you, you should still obey her because she is your Queen and you love her. Make your obedience your gift to her. And at the same time, share with her your desire to explore humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose play and perhaps she will incorporate that into your training in order to give you that extra motivation and submissive顺从 — willing to obey fulfillment. The humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose play can even include a trip to see a Dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman (perhaps even a she-male, if your wife agrees) but the purpose of the trip will be to explore your submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature in more detail so your wife can use her gained knowledge to further your training and to further her control over you. The trip to see the Dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman will be her gift to you but your obedience must always be your gift to her.

Q. Dear Elise, my husband and I are in our late 50's with a son in graduate school. Our marriage has always been in my control, but now that we're retired "empty nesters," we are able to be more open and relaxed with our playtime and lifestyle.