Q&A Forum - August/September 2019 (Best of Elise)

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Outside of the bedroom we live a vanilla普通性爱 — sex without kink life. I treat her with the utmost respect and she treats me with the same kind of respect. I do most of the chores around the house, clean the bathrooms, do dishes, laundry, all yard work and most errands (running to the bank, post office, groceries etc). I manage all the finances and she sometimes will buy things for herself. This makes me happy if she is happy. Often I am encouraged to do my chores in the nude and often maintain an erection the entire time. She just smiles and laughs.

To our friends and family we are a regular normal couple and that is they way we both prefer things to be. I'm extremely happy as is she. We have been together now for 10 years (including those years before marriage).

I do not judge anyone on this site for the way in which they live there life. I just want people to know it is possible to be very happy and fulfilled while keeping S&M between a couple in the bedroom and the privacy of their minds.

A. Very well said. Most FemDom女性支配 — female domination couples do keep their sex lives private and discreet and rarely do family or friends know what they do behind closed doors. To most of the world, FemDom女性支配 — female domination couples appear no different than a vanilla普通性爱 — sex without kink couple, with the possible exception that the woman is more confident and is treated wonderfully by her husband.