Q&A Forum - August/September 2019 (Best of Elise)

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The more you submit to her, the more she will want to dominate you. The more you strive to make her endeavors more enjoyable, the more she will desire to “play” in the bedroom. I realize you need that D&S interaction to keep you motivated, and you should communicate this to her by gently and lovingly reminding her how much you need that interaction. However, your focus needs to be on meeting her needs both inside and outside the bedroom. The more you do it, the more natural it will become and the more she will expect and demand it from you. So get up each morning and mediate on how you can serve your wife and how you can please her. If you will do this, the rest will take care of itself.

Q. Dear Elise, I am 32 years old and I am married to a successful Plastic Surgeon. He and I met a couple years ago, and we married about 2 years ago. He is 2 years younger than me. I am dying to try teasing and denial games and other femdom女性支配 — female domination games with him, but I can't find the nerve or the right way to tell him about it. He just seems so perfect. Teasing and denial is usually done to get guys to do stuff. I can't imagine making him do more stuff than what he does already.