Q&A Forum - August/September 2019 (Best of Elise)

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Whenever I’m stressed out or upset he goes out of his way to pamper me and makes me feel better in every way possible. He gives me gifts and most of all, he doesn't complain for one second. He has all the main responsibilities but doesn't argue about having too much to deal with. That is why I can't find the nerve to play tease and denial挑逗后不许高潮 — arousal without allowing the climax games with him or other games associated with female domination, or “punish" him for that matter. It just doesn't seem useful. If he does everything anyone could ever ask for, how could I ask him to do more? Do you have any advice about this situation? I am looking for mainly a female perspective. Thanks.

A. You married a wonderful man with a submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature. He loves to pamper you and he loves to worship崇拜侍奉 — adoring service you. Count yourself as blessed and continue what you are doing as it sounds like he is deeply in love with you and he is captivated by your female power which freely flows from you naturally. He does not need frequent D&S sessions because he finds submissive顺从 — willing to obey fulfillment in pampering his Queen, which you are.

He has a stressful job and he finds release in his servitude of you. Serving you fulfills him. He loves you and wants you to be happy and he proves his love by placing your needs above his own. This brings him inner contentment and happiness. He realizes that if he keeps you happy and fulfilled, he will be happy and fulfilled. He is a wonderful example to his gender on how a husband should treat his wife, regardless how busy he is.