Q&A Forum - August/September 2018

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Like I said, change is never easy. Your wife had the courage to change so now you must muster that same kind of courage. You do not enjoy doing domestic chores but you do them nonetheless because you like that submissive顺从 — willing to obey fulfillment you get when you yield to your wife's dominance. The same will occur in these new areas. It will not always be easy when she chooses a path for your relationship that is not the path you would have chosen, but if you will yield to her and submit to her, you will experience that submissive顺从 — willing to obey fulfillment you internally enjoy. I wish you both the best.

Q. Dear Ms Sutton, I am a single male in my early thirties and I am seeking a dominant woman to serve and hopefully build a lasting relationship. I have dated often in my life and enjoy the companionship of women but something has definitely been lacking. I have been unfulfilled by the dating process and after reading your site, I now know why.

I have either taken the traditional male role in a relationship or I have tried to approach a relationship as an equal partnership. What role I have taken has been dependent on the woman based on her expectations in a man. I now realize that I need to be in the submissive顺从 — willing to obey role to a dominant woman if I am to find fulfillment and worth as a man. Your philosophy makes so much sense and I can look back on the many relationships I have enjoyed and can clearly see that when I was focused on the woman's needs, I was the happiest.