Q&A Forum - August/September 2018

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At your age, I don't see any problem continuing regular anal肛门的 — to do with the anus play unless you have an existing condition. But I am not a medical doctor so don't allow embarrassment to keep you from asking your doctor these tough questions. She/he will respect your confidentiality. If your colon and prostate exams give you a clean bill of health, then you should be able to continue business as usual. But if you have any health problems, then you need to tell your doctor about your sexual lifestyle and get her/his advice. You might even want to get a second opinion from a doctor who is familiar with alternative lifestyles. Your local BDSM group might be able to steer you to a doctor who is scene friendly if you are too embarrassed to talk to your family doctor.

Q. Dear Ms Elise Sutton, how refreshing it is to see a woman of such education and knowledge write on the mindset of the submissive顺从 — willing to obey male. I will indeed be ordering your books. Thank you!

I must admit, however, that I have many questions. One that burns is that your site shows very authoritative women (drawings) that invariably wear nylon stockings长袜 — a close-fitting covering for the leg and carry crops. May I please ask why is it that nylon stockings长袜 — a close-fitting covering for the leg with garters吊袜带 — a band that holds up a stocking have such an overwhelming fixation for the male? So much so that he immediately feels a sense of inferiority (probably from sensing he is losing control over himself) and wants/needs to submit to the female. This is very perplexing to me as to "why"? Any comment from you would be most welcomed...thank you so much.