Q&A Forum - August/September 2018

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The only problem I am having is two areas that she has suggested she wants to explore. She wants to get me a chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm device and work me toward long-term male chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm and she has also said that she might want to date in the future. She doesn't know if it will ever lead to cuckolding because she is not comfortable with that concept yet but the idea of flirting and dating other men does interest her. I think she is enjoying the attention men are giving her at work and at the gym. Her looks and her attitude make her very attractive and I enjoy the fact that other men are finding my wife to be hot. She has never experienced this kind of popularity and it has done wonders for her self-esteem.

I am open to the idea of her exploring her liberation but male chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm and cuckolding frighten me. I am not ready yet to surrender to that point. Maybe it is male pride but I love her and want her all for myself. I know that sounds selfish but I love where we are at now in our relationship and don't want to risk losing it. Should I be worried or should I do as you have suggested to other men and trust her? Surrendering sounds easy but when it is in unchartered waters it is not so easy to do.