Q&A Forum - August 2004

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Now if you peak her interest and she goes home and puts my name in a search engine, well then all pretense and subtleties will be gone the next time you see her. If you fear embarrassment, you would be better off trying to seduce a woman’s dominant nature through genuine servitude and submission prior to discussing my book or my site.

I am open to all suggestions so if anyone out there has a phrase or code word that would be appropriate within a conversation where one could measure the other on whether they read my site or not, feel free to submit it to me and if I like it, I would be more than glad to post it on my site.

But before anyone spends too much creative time or energy on devising such a code word, let me ask this. What if? What if you used a code word and the woman responded that she indeed reads my site? What would be your next move? Would you invite her back to your place in the hope that she would dominate you? If that is your motivation, you are destined to fail. Even if a woman is seeking a submissive顺从 — willing to obey male, she is seeking a man who will place her needs above his own desires. So even if a woman is open to FemDom女性支配 — female domination, the man must still feed her dominant nature by serving her and submitting to her needs. Build the friendship first and build the relationship first based on meeting the needs of the female. For if you’ll do that, then the D&S and the FemDom女性支配 — female domination in the bedroom will solidify the relationship. Take care and good luck.