Q&A Forum - August 2004

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A. What occurs behind closed doors are very private and intimate experiences between a dominant woman and a submissive顺从 — willing to obey man. I don’t blame you for being concerned but you do not know for sure that your wife has been sharing these experiences with her friends. She might be telling you that it is none of your business as a way of humiliating you for her own private pleasure. She might want you to think that she is sharing these tapes with others because this aids her when she has a humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose session with you..

Obviously you enjoy being humiliated. I am sure your wife didn’t happen to come across your desire to be humiliated by chance. You willingly participate in these sessions because it excites you sexually and your wife enjoys the power it gives her. The hidden camera might be her way of taking that humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose to a new level. It adds the extra excitement of mystery as you are enslaved to your own thoughts from not knowing what your wife may or may not do with your most humiliating secret. This is all about control. She is controlling you by having these tapes.