Q&A Forum - August 2004

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Ms. Sutton, I must confess something. When I first started to visit your website over a year and a half ago, I scoffed at your saying that goes, "Sex is for the Woman's pleasure only." But now I understand much better what you were trying to communicate to us. I am starting to believe that the male orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax was really intended more for procreation exclusively as the ejaculate contains sperm. Also, frequent orgasms高潮 — the sexual climax can weaken a male and I'm told can shorten his lifespan. Maybe this is one reason why females tend to outlive males but I'm no authority. Nature (God) on the other hand, endowed women with the ability to enjoy orgasms高潮 — the sexual climax without the same consequences. What do you think?

A. I agree! The female orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax is different from the male orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax both biologically and psychologically. In the above question, the gentleman talked about the correlation between loneliness and masturbation. While his intentions were sincere, he had the cart before the horse. That lonely feeling is not the reason for masturbation but it is a result of masturbation. The let down I talk about which occurs in males has been compared to a feeling of temporary loneliness and temporary depression. That is why some men cop attitudes toward a woman after sex. A lot of women complain about how men act after orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax. It is different with women. Women feel intimate, loved and a closeness with their partner after orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax. For women, it is a euphoric feeling. For men, it is often a let down after a wonderful build-up.