Q&A Forum - August 2004

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By the way, I did not invent the description of “let down” to describe the male orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax. Men have told me this is what they experience. Men describe their orgasms高潮 — the sexual climax this way. Men also describe the feelings of brief loneliness and depression after orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax, even when in the arms of a woman. Such feelings are no doubt a chemical reaction in the brain caused by the bodily stress relief provided by the sexual climax. In women, this feeling is euphoric. In men, it is a feeling of “let down”.

Not all men and not all women experience the same sensation after orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax but overall, the female orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax is much different than the male orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax. It is much more a positive experience for the female and the denied man is a more passionate and devoted man. The pleasure a woman receives from orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax is also more intense and more pleasurable than what a man experiences. In fact, as men age, their orgasms高潮 — the sexual climax often become slightly painful due to the enlarging of the prostate.

For all of these reasons (as well as the obvious D&S implications which brings into play the power of dominant energy feeding off of submissive顺从 — willing to obey energy) sex becomes more about the woman’s physical pleasure and the woman’s orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax. The male experiences more mental pleasure and more submissive顺从 — willing to obey fulfillment when he is denied. Therefore, D&S sex becomes mutually beneficial.