Q&A Forum - August 2007 (The best of Elise)

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His embarrassment is a result of his male ego. He doesn’t want you to know that he wants to be dominated. The patriarchy has sold him a lie so he thinks it is a sign of weakness when a woman defeats a man or when a woman excels in a so-called man’s world. He is ashamed of his erection because it tells you what his mouth dare not tell you. His erection tells you the truth about what he desires. He desires for you to dominate him. He desires for women to rule. He believes that women are superior and he likes it because that is nature’s way. His ego prevents him from verbalizing and his ego prevents him from admitting this but his erection is his nature being expressed without the censorship of his ego.

You get past this by taking charge. He wants you to take charge and he wants his submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature to be freed. His ego needs to be put in its place and only you can do that. So go to him and tell him how you really feel. No more pretending and no more trying to conform to the patriarchy. If you believe that women are superior, tell your boyfriend this and I guarantee you he will get an erection, as he will become overwhelmed with the strongest submissive顺从 — willing to obey feeling of his life. Tell him that you are taking control of his life and that from here on out, you are in charge of the relationship. His ego may fight you a little but his submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature will overwhelm his ego. He will be unable to resist your female power. Best wishes.