Q&A Forum - August 2007 (The best of Elise)

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There is little doubt that some young women are drawn to macho, aggressive males based purely on sexual desires. But most women believe they can tame a macho male and make him passive and submissive顺从 — willing to obey toward her in the social and domestic areas of life. All seems to go well during the dating process if sex is taking place because the sexual power of the female tames the male and causes him to be passive and submissive顺从 — willing to obey. But this is short-lived unless the female understands exactly what is transpiring. Most young women are in for a rude awakening at some point, as they just assume a man will always be so agreeable and obedient. They fail to understand that during the courtship, the female is in the dominant position thanks to her sexual power. But unless the young female realizes the power she possesses (and most do not), she will yield to the patriarchal traditions and allow the male to be the dominant partner. Thus the spell is broken and the aggressive male will revert back to his ways of being difficult, rebellious and macho.