Q&A Forum - August 2007 (The best of Elise)

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The danger of adult entertainment is that it can become porn by becoming addicting to the destruction of a healthy sex life. You are married to a beautiful woman but if you would rather view porn over serving her sexual, domestic and social needs, then you have a problem. Porn can become addicting because you begin to program your senses to only become aroused at the sight of porn. Romance and sexuality is about sight, touch, sound, smell, personal interactions and above all, love. Adult entertainment can be perfectly Ok to assist in the sexuality of people but when the adult entertainment becomes the sexuality, it is out of balance and can be harmful to a relationship.

It is kind of like the difference between a person who drinks socially and the person who is an alcoholic. Viewing and reading adult material can be a positive experience if the person’s motives are to enhance their reality based sex life. But when the porn becomes a person’s sex life, then they will have trouble relating to an actual sexual relationship. That is what has happened to you.