Q&A Forum - December 2006

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He may have confessed a potential trigger to you when he mentioned how he wants to be naked while you are clothed. When a man mentions something like this, don’t discard it. I am not saying you have to do it his way but don’t be afraid to explore certain activities with him. If you prefer to feminize him, do it both ways and see how it goes. Have him naked one time as he does his chores, then the next time feminize him. If he had an erection while he was feminized, you definitely touched something within him. Maybe it was just the fact that you were making him do housework and he was aroused by his subservient position and being feminized has nothing to do with it. Or maybe you struck a chord within him that he does not want to admit to himself. Maybe a part of him likes that you emasculated him like that.

I know I am giving you a lot of “maybes” but that is why you need to explore and experiment. You both are unique so find that which you enjoy and that which stimulates his submission at the same time. If you are at this long enough, you will hit your stride and your dominant energy will feed off of his submission energy, and vice versa. Just be mindful that you are in charge and don’t allow him to top you from below. This lifestyle is about your pleasure. You want to communicate with him and you want to learn about his submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature but never surrender the dominant role. It sounds like you are off to a great start. Best wishes!