Q&A Forum - December 2007 (The best of Elise)

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So the best way to go from fantasy to reality is to change your focus from yourself (fantasy) to the woman (reality). Be mindful of the woman’s needs and begin your journey into reality by focusing on her domestic and social needs and take her lead when she wants you to focus on her emotional and sexual needs. Seduce the woman’s dominant nature through reality based servitude. If you will do the dishes and develop a “Yes, Dear!” mentality on the domestic front, you may one day find yourself tied to the bed beholding your Goddess女神 — a woman treated as divine wielding her whip while wearing a sexy leather outfit. It is at that point that reality and fantasy can co-exist but it takes changing your fantasy to coincide with reality.

Q. Hi Elise, hope I'm not intruding but I'm completely out of my depth! I've done a lot of research on the subject of 'fem-dom' and came across your Site by accident. The subject at hand is something which has been described as 'orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax denial'. This is something that has interested me since puberty.

I'm a little worried as I think that I may be perverted because of this. Is there something wrong with me? How would I let any future partners know of my fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing without them freaking out on me? And could this ever be a loving part of a sexual relationship? If so how could I bring the subject to hand with any future partners?