Q&A Forum - December 2009 (The best of Elise)

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Perhaps you are Gay and your fascination with the Dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman is born out of your desire for loving female authority, as your inner male child cries out for the loving but strict hand of a female authority figure. Or perhaps this inner stirring is more than that. Perhaps you are still evolving in your sexuality, and while you tell yourself that your attraction to the dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman is not sexual, maybe it is. It may begin as an emotional or spiritual need but it could develop into a sexual desire.

Who knows what is at the core of your desires? You will only come to terms with what you truly seek and what you truly need if you allow these stirrings to be freed through exploration and experimentation. Therefore, I would suggest that you act upon these stirrings by seeing a Professional Dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman (unless you know of a lifestyle Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner who would be willing to explore your submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature). Such an experience may settle in your heart once and for all what you truly desire both sexually and emotionally. But don’t make any judgments from just one session.