Q&A Forum - December 2009 (The best of Elise)

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That is hard for some to comprehend because most people know by mere sight if they are attracted to males or females or both. But there are those who are of a more complicated nature who are conflicted and their ultimate destination takes time to unfold. Remember, our sexuality is a combination of what Nature implants within plus the sum of our life experiences, especially those in our childhood. Those experiences can sometimes bury our inner nature and it takes time and exploration for that nature to be unleashed.

I do wish you the best in your continued journey in life.

Q. Dear Elise, Thank you for allowing me to write to you and I would be humbled to receive a reply. I discovered your magnificent website about 2 months ago. I am a happily married man in my mid-fifties with a wonderful wife about the same age. We have been married 23 years. When I first met her, she was very insecure about her looks and her high school level education. She was raised to be a housewife and a mother. I, on the other hand, was a successful "man about town" both socially and in business. I had not had any serious relationships with women because I would attract them, use them, become bored with them and discard them. They fell in love too fast and were no challenge at all. My wife was the opposite.