Q&A Forum - December 2009 (The best of Elise)

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Build the relationship while you seduce her dominant nature through genuine servitude, respect and adoration. To launch right into D&S or advanced FemDom女性支配 — female domination will rarely succeed unless you want to be nothing more than a slave奴隶 — a person kept in total obedience to a woman who has no desire to build a friendship with you. Those kinds of FemDom女性支配 — female domination relationships do exist and do work for people but if you want the emotional and intellectual stimulation that comes from interacting with a superior female, you must focus on building the friendship while you seduce her dominant nature through your servitude. The D&S stuff and fantasy exploration can come later but it will be she who initiates it based on her fantasies and her dominant urges.

It is not a Catch 22 unless you allow it to become a Catch 22. True FemDom女性支配 — female domination is about a man who exists to serve a woman. You date to find that female who is compatible with you intellectually, socially and spiritually. Once you find a woman you feel that connection, you make her your Queen by serving her. You earn her trust and you build that trust and once you have that trust, you can open up to her about your submissive顺从 — willing to obey desires. I do wish you the best and please keep the faith.