Q&A Forum - December 2009 (The best of Elise)

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You also may enjoy viewing a man and woman in this particular position because it signifies a complete societal role reversal. When a woman takes a man from behind with her strap-on穿戴式假阳具 — a toy penis worn in a harness, it is more of a societal statement that she is aggressive and strong and he is at her total mercy. But the face to face position signifies that the man is now the weaker sex, now he is on the bottom and she is on top, thus the missionary position has been reversed. That may excite you for the social statement that even within loving and intimate relationships, the woman has the power and she is the initiator in the bedroom. The traditional societal roles are reversed and that imagery turns you on because you agree with this new societal model where the woman is the dominant sexual partner. Take care.

Q. Ms. Sutton, I'm a middle aged man who's been serving a young woman for over two years. She's a single mother with two small children and works as a sales clerk. I serve her by cleaning her apartment, cooking, babysitting, doing laundry, running errands, etc. She has always had an active dating life, but she made it clear from the beginning that the only way I could prove that I sincerely cared for her was to remain celibate, which I have.