Q&A Forum - December 2009 (The best of Elise)

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My wife was uncomfortable the entire weekend but I decided since I was there, I should make the best of it. “When in Rome…”, right? Once I relaxed and mingled with people, I found them to be very nice and helpful. Weird, perhaps, but nice. If the people I work with knew what my wife and I do behind closed doors, they would think I was weird. Therefore I am not judging these people, only relaying my thoughts.

My favorite part of the weekend was the play parties at night. My wife liked some of the classes because there was a more laid back atmosphere in the classes and she did learn some important BDSM techniques and safety tips that will come in handy in our private time together. I liked the play parties best even though we didn’t participate but only observed. What I liked best was viewing the dominant women in their fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing outfits. It was a real orgy for the senses of a submissive顺从 — willing to obey male and I am lucky to be married to a woman who does not mind it when I look at dominant women in fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing attire. If you had a leather, latex乳胶 — shiny rubber used for tight clothes or boot fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing, this was the place to be.

We made the best of the weekend and took back home with us a real BDSM education. I know I will never be able to get my wife to attend another such event but I think we are the better for having gone.