Q&A Forum - December 2012

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But as a man ages, his sex drive diminishes as he loses testosterone. But as his physical sex drive may diminish, his mental desire for sex does not. You said yourself that as you mature, you are more aware of your submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature. What you are saying is that the thought of female domination sexually excites you mentally but you lack the physical sex drive you had as a younger man. So how do you channel your submissive顺从 — willing to obey desires? It is called servitude. You can now gain mental, emotional, social and spiritual fulfillment via serving a woman. That may mean doing chores for her, obeying her authority, pampering her and also sexually serving her (especially if D&S exists because D&S is a sexuality of the mind which will help boost a diminished sex drive). A man’s increasing submissive顺从 — willing to obey drive and diminished sexual drive keeps him devoted and committed to the woman in his life and that empowers the woman.