Q&A Forum - December 2012

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Of course a chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm device does not have to be for long-term wear and can be used as a training tool. Some women will put their man in a chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm device even if the male finds it to be uncomfortable. Then the woman can say, “Ok, I’ll let you out as long as you don’t touch yourself. If I find you are touching yourself, you are going back in the device.” So a chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm device can be used for long-term wear or as a training device. You will have to experiment and find what works best in your relationship.

Good luck! It sounds like the two of you are having a marvelous time. Your husband is indeed a blessed man.

Q. Dear Ms. Sutton, First of all, let me say that you and your site are wonderful! Thank you so much for all that you do.

I have been wearing a chastity belt贞操带 — a locked garment that blocks sex for some time now. My wife and I both love the effects. In addition to all the typical benefits, we have used it very successfully to help me control my weight.

However, we seem to have a bit of a problem in terms of getting it back on after I have an orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax. My wife doesn't like to nag me to put it back on, and since I don't exactly have a lot of discipline, I will often go many, many days before I get around to putting it back on. (Of course, I masturbate like crazy during this unlocked period.)

So, our question to you is whether you have any suggestions on how we can ensure that I get locked up relatively promptly after each orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax?