Q&A Forum - December 2014

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Perhaps a kinder approach (in addition to the cold shower) would be to simply tell him that as long as he demonstrates that he can do a satisfactory job with his chores each week, then he will be allowed his weekly relief on your pre-determined day. But if his servitude ever wanes, then you may have to extend his denial time longer. And if he can't be trusted, there is always the option of putting him in a chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm device.

You are doing a wonderful job with your husband. Like so many other wives, you have discovered that a denied husband is an obedient and motivated husband but too many orgasms高潮 — the sexual climax lead to laziness and disobedience. He should count his blessings that he is married to such a compassionate wife. I know a lot of women who would indeed reach for the Ben-gay if their hubby ever asked for a hand-job. Take care!