Q&A Forum - December 2014

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We've been together for 16 years, the past 5 of those years I've been an orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax denied cuckold绿帽男 — a man whose wife has other lovers. She sees her current lover once, sometimes twice a week and it was hot and exciting for the first few years we did this but lately, I just haven't been feeling the "it". The "it" being that hot mix of jealousy and excitement from your wife being banged by another man while you are denied. "It" doesn't seem to be there anymore and I find myself having to force my enthusiasm.

Lately I've been yearning for a little more vanilla普通性爱 — sex without kink in our relationship. Maybe I miss the monogamous type of relationship. Maybe it's not about sex at all. I feel intensely guilty because it was I who encouraged my wife to try cuckolding. So if the feelings that I am having right now is a result of the years she has been cuckolding me, then a large part of it is my own fault.

I know my wife thoroughly enjoys this lifestyle. I would never ask my wife to stop seeing other men, that would be incredibly selfish of me to take away something that makes her happy and brings her so much pleasure. Her current lover is an African-American gentleman who recently got out of the Army. He is quite a few years younger than her and he is incredibly endowed. When they go at it, I can hear my wife’s screams of ecstasy all over the house. How can I even think about asking her to give this up? There is no way I could ever bring her that much physical pleasure, and I know it.