Q&A Forum - December 2016 (The best of Elise)

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That is the explanation for a physical attraction to a dominant woman. Of course there can also be deeper psychological reasons. In your case, there could be a historic or ancestral reason for your fantasy.

In Nick Broomfield's documentary "Fetishes恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing" (reviewed by Ms Kathleen in the March 2005 edition of Predominant), one of the clients of Pandora’s Box in New York City was an African American male who wanted one of the white women to dress up as a Southern plantation owner and treat him as her slave奴隶 — a person kept in total obedience. According to this documentary, this was a rather common role-playing fantasy of African American men. Likewise, a Jewish man requested for a woman to dress as a Nazi Gestapo agent and interrogate him. There are some deep psychological reasons for these types of fantasies.

Some people find that they can better cope with an uncomfortable past if they confront demons through role-playing. To these men, the horrors and injustice of the past has found its way into their sexuality. The white Female Plantation owner and the Female Nazi represent power and authority to the African-American male and the Jewish male respectively. And if the man is a masochist, these women may represent female sadism to them, and that thought arouses them.