Q&A Forum - December 2019 (Best of Elise)

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Subspace is different for each male. Every man is unique with a unique nature, a unique personality and with unique life experiences. Depending on his nature and his experiences, a man's sexuality is developed and is stored within his mind. It often takes experimentation to explore and discover exactly what will trigger a man's submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature. It is initially explored through the sexual but once touched and released via sexual and mental stimulation, it will cause a man to lay down his guard (his human will) and if he lets go and surrenders himself to the female, he will enter into subspace. The D&S is a merely a tool that a woman uses to explore the hidden areas of the man's mind, looking for that trigger that will cause the man to surrender his will to her. Once he does, it opens them both up to embrace their true natures.

You are able to achieve this state of being when you are between your wife’s legs, orally pleasuring her. Her taste and her smell add to your experience but what makes it so powerful is that you are surrendering yourself to her. It is all about her pleasure and when you are between her legs you are not focused on your pleasure, you lose yourself in her very essence, and this experience transfers your mind to a mental and spiritual state that some in this lifestyle refer to as subspace. Perhaps that is not the most prefect word used to describe this experience and I believe that your association with a spiritual state of being is more accurate.