Q&A Forum - December 2019 (Best of Elise)

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In Female Domination, the cuckolding lifestyle has come to mean a liberated wife who has other lovers for the sole purpose of humiliating her husband and using that humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose to drive the husband into deeper submission to her. The dominant wife claims that she is free to do whatever she pleases, including having sex with whomever she desires. The husband must be monogamous to her and must suffer the shame of being cuckolded. And as you point out in your question, often within FemDom女性支配 — female domination, orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax denial and control of the husband accompanies cuckolding. The wife loves to have sex with another man while denying her own husband the right of having sex with her. It is a mind game and a power exchange.

You mentioned that you feel the word “cuckolding” has a negative connotation. The term cuckolding originally referred to an “unfaithful” wife. However, cuckolding among female dominant couples differs from the original definition of cuckolding because the husband is voluntarily cuckolded by his wife, sometimes as part of the husband's sexual fantasy and sometimes because he gains genuine sexual arousal through being humiliated by his wife’s sexual lliberation. This is different than polyamory because while a husband may consent to his wife having other sexual partners, he may not consent to her having another man (or men) in her life outside of the bedroom.