Q&A Forum - December 2019 (Best of Elise)

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Out of curiosity, I went to YouTube and did a search on FemDom女性支配 — female domination. There are an assortment of video clips, some are short scenes taken out of mainstream movies whereas other are from Professional Dominant women that posted video clips and slideshows in order to advertise their own paid websites. I found a variety of free clips on YouTube that showed such FemDom女性支配 — female domination acts like foot worship崇拜侍奉 — adoring service, spankings, verbal humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose, and even one that showed a woman using a Queening坐脸 — sitting on a partner's face box on her man.

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Q. My wife and I are rather timid about reaching out to other people regarding our lifestyle. A previous Q&A letter from a Female reader prompted me to respond. We have reached out to a few friends with lukewarm to somewhat negative responses. We have also considered going to munches and other parties but so far we have yet to find a space that offers a gradual enough introduction to newcomers. I hope this doesn't sound snobbish but we have observed some rather off-putting people -- mostly male -- in the BDSM world that make my wife very uncomfortable and I don't blame her.

So, organized groups are not exactly the easiest choice and reaching out to friends is fraught with risks. I would hope that someone in the community might find a way to help bridge that gap so that average, fairly mainstream couples can find one another. If you have any suggestions along that line, I'm sure we are not alone in wanting to hear them.