The Disciplined Life: Questions about Discipline, Spankings and Corporal Punishment

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Once you feel comfortable that you can handle the bullwhip with skill, than you can use it on your hubby. Make sure he has been trained to handle the sting of the whip. If he can take the cane, he can handle the bullwhip (in my opinion). I have had men tell me the cane hurts worse than the bullwhip if the woman knows how to properly use them both. Don't get me wrong, the bullwhip does hurt and can do some real damage if you are not skilled.

If you do not have a place to practice and still want to learn how to use a bullwhip, you could attend a BDSM event where they do demonstrations and you could learn this way if they will allow you to practice after they do a demonstration. I would advise if your first attempt will be on an actual submissive顺从 — willing to obey male, that you make sure the instructor is there watching you and teaching you the proper technique.