The Disciplined Life: Questions about Discipline, Spankings and Corporal Punishment

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A. If she was punishing you for an offense, it was not suppose to be erotic. I have written about the difference between discipline and punishment. The goal with the punishment was for it to hurt so that you would never commit that offense again. She was teaching you and training you to be more obedient to her. The problem arises because it is a long distance relationship. If she was there with you, she could add the nurturing which would make the punishment more effective and a more positive experience for you.

It is also possible that she did it too hard. Spanking and whipping a man is an art. One must start out slow and build to severe. If it was a discipline session, a woman should make it erotic and sexual as well as painful. The more aroused a man becomes, the harder a discipline session he can endure. Such skill comes with practice and again, if she lived closer, she could more easily explore your pleasure and pain levels with you and learn how to properly discipline you in order to draw out more of your submission instead of driving it deeper into you. The goal of the discipline session is to draw out your submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature so you will be eager to serve. The goal of the punishment session is to punish you for your offense.