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The Disciplined Life: Questions about Discipline, Spankings and Corporal Punishment

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She suggested I ask for your advice and this is the reason why I'm writing. Ms Sutton, does she have the right to punish me as she wishes although I'm doing my best to please her?

A. You know the answer to this question and you wanted to write me just to hear another woman re-enforce it. Of course she has the right to punish you for her entertainment but she also has a method to her discipline. She is teaching you self-control. She is making your stimulation an unpleasant experience so you will be able to go longer periods of time between orgasms高潮 — the sexual climax. I talked about self-control in the letter above and what your Domme女主人 — a dominant woman is doing is giving you the mental programming you can use to fight back orgasms高潮 — the sexual climax. You will be able to equate pain with stimulation and that will help you to have better self-control as you view your orgasms高潮 — the sexual climax as a negative instead of a positive.

By my definition this is not really a punishment but rather discipline. I answered another question awhile back about the difference between a punishment and a discipline and how it is easy to intermingle these terms. By the letter of the law, I would call what she is doing to you a regular discipline session and not a punishment.